just watched Wild Things. quite good. nice plot twists.
now you may be thinking "isn't that the movie with the kinda infamous sex scene?" yup. but it was good apart from that too. as i said plot twists. also v nice atmosphere.
you might also be thinking "what's so great about a sex scene in a movie when porn is easy to come by?" (ok you probably weren't thinking that)
i suppose the answer parallels the difference between one night stands and sex as part of an intimate, longterm relationship.
sex completely out of context seems boring. motion and nerve impulses. much like walking, swimming, or typing.
or compare these:
- touching molecules
- touching flesh
- touching a girl
- touching the girl you care about
( If you're a female reader and feeling alienated, you're too sensitive ;p )
( If you're a gay guy and feeling especially alienated now, good. I hate you. )
all of them could have been the exact same event! but each has a different meaning.
porn is notorious for its bad plots and lack of character development (when there is any token effort made at all). but this doesn't just make the porn worse by some snobby, artistic standards. it makes the sex scenes worse!
if we identify with, care about, or feel attracted to the characters it makes all the difference. hollywood movies often achieve this. porn doesn't.
also putting sex into everyday life makes the fantasy more accessible (ok not quite everyday life, but closer than cheesy porn flicks)
i'd also like to point out that i explained this *without mysticism*. many people would say one night stands and porn is "soulless sex" or lacking in "spiritual energy" or that somehow the marriage ritual makes all the difference. but when there is an explanation that makes sense and uses meaningful terms instead of fuzzy, mystic ones, we ought to prefer it.
on the sex scene being infamous. it overshadowed the plot in a lot of ppl's minds. here's a comment:
now i agree The Usual Suspects was great, and had a strong plot, and was more of a thriller/drama. but Wild Things had a good plot too, dammit.
and down a bit more the commenter asks my question! (but comes up with a different answer)
also got asked to clarify what attracted to, care about, and identify with mean, nonmystically.
identify with = shared values
care about = care about ...? like it matters to you what happens to the person, even though s/he isn't you.
attracted to = person satisfies your criteria for attraction. these are sometimes (always?) kinda irrational and/or arbitrary. and probably very strongly entrenched and not worth fighting with or worrying about either. *shrug*